Can anyone on Blogger help?

I know that I'm showing my Techno idiocy off to its highest degree here, but no matter!
I want to add my other blog to my profile, but I don't understand the instructions given by Blogger. It says "You can access these settings by clicking on the drop-down menu next to the gray Post List icon, going to Settings | Basic, and clicking Edit under the Privacy section.

But I don't know where to look to find the "grey Post List icon" so I'm rather stymied! I know this is simply a case of me being stupid, but can anyone help?!